Gifted deposits: what the giver is signing

If you're giving money towards someone's house deposit, the lender will usually ask you to sign a gifted deposit letter. It confirms the money is a gift, not a loan, and that you won't have any claim on the property. Some lenders also ask for independent legal advice.

Key takeaways

  • The letter confirms the money is a gift you won't ask to be repaid.
  • You usually give up any interest in the property.
  • If you'll live there, you may also need to sign an occupier's consent form.
  • The lender and conveyancer will check where the money came from.
  • Large gifts can have inheritance tax implications.

What a gifted deposit letter is

Lenders need to know where a buyer’s deposit has come from. If a relative or friend is giving money, the lender will ask them to sign a gifted deposit letter (sometimes called a gift declaration). It usually confirms:

  • the amount of the gift and who it’s for
  • that it is a gift, not a loan, and doesn’t have to be repaid
  • that you won’t have any share in, or claim on, the property
  • that you aren’t expecting anything in return
  • whether you’ll be living in the property

What you’re giving up

Signing means you’re very unlikely to be able to get the money back. If the buyer later sells, separates from a partner, or loses the property in a repossession, you won’t be able to claim your gift back from the sale.

If you want any chance of getting money back, it isn’t a gift. Lenders treat loans very differently, and many won’t accept a borrowed deposit at all. Be honest with the lender about what you intend.

If you’ll live in the property

If you’ll live in the home you’re helping to buy, the lender will usually also ask you to sign an occupier’s consent form. That means you agree the lender’s mortgage comes before any right you have to live there.

Proof of funds

Expect to be asked for ID and bank statements showing where the money came from, often going back several months. This is part of anti-money laundering checks by the buyer’s conveyancer and the lender. Large or unusual deposits into your account may need explaining.

Tax

A gift may have implications for inheritance tax. There are annual exemptions, and gifts can fall outside your estate if you survive a certain number of years, but the rules depend on your circumstances. If the gift is large, it’s worth getting tax advice. Your ILA solicitor will flag this but won’t usually give detailed tax advice.

Gifts between partners and family

If the buyer is your partner and you’re not on the title, think carefully. You may prefer to be a joint owner, or to record your contribution in a declaration of trust, rather than make a gift. A solicitor can talk you through the options.

Not every lender requires it, but many do, particularly for large gifts or where the giver will live in the property. Even where it’s optional, a short conversation with a solicitor makes sure you understand you’re giving up any claim to the money. See ILA for a gifted deposit.

Frequently asked questions

Can I get my gifted deposit back?

Usually not. The letter confirms the money is a gift and that you have no claim on the property. If you want it back in future, it's a loan, and the lender must be told.

Do I need to show where the money came from?

Yes. Expect ID and bank statements so the conveyancer and lender can complete anti-money laundering checks.

Does a gifted deposit affect inheritance tax?

It may. There are exemptions, and the position depends on your circumstances. Take tax advice for large gifts.

I'm going to live in the property. What else will I sign?

Usually an occupier's consent form, confirming the lender's rights come before any right you have to live there.

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Reviewed by Saba Rehman, Solicitor
SRA-regulated · Last reviewed 9 October 2026

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